Myself Lately IV

It’s 7.00 am I have an aching back and a sore foot. My eyes are heavy but when I close them sleep is far away. What better time than this to talk about myself lately?

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Where did my Mojo go?


For a few days now I’ve been thinking a lot about my blog and noticed I actually haven’t written from my heart in a while. When I started The Black Writer, I wanted to be able to motivate and speak to my readers , I wanted to share my life with you and hoped it would be an example. Of course with a little bit of fun here and there. And now thinking back, since I started my final year I haven’t been able to do that. I don’t know if it’s the stress from school that’s distracting me or I’m just loosing it. 


School went on break for two weeks, I spent my break sleeping, eating and thinking. Oh yh!!! I got a lot of thinking done, not just about my blog but my life generally. For a long time I had been blind to a lot of truths, my judgements had been clouded and I had made decisions on wrong basis. 


I Talked to God a lot about all these feelings and I’m just gonna sit and watch Him take care of me. 

Soon I’ll start writing again and I can’t wait to share them with you. 



Kisses for you allπŸ’‹πŸ’‹. 

Outfit Details

Tank top: Mr Price 

Skirt : Gifted from my sister

And my make up was inspired by Ofure

Have you been reflecting about your life and the direction it’s going, your blog or your business? How’s that coming for you ? 

Have you seen 

My mid year bucket list
My Leibster Award post

Mid Year Bucket ListΒ 


Hello there my beautiful readers😊. 

It is my usual tradition to come up with a to-do list at the beginning of the year. I write all the adventures, places I want to visit and things I want to do. Anyways, this year I didn’t feel like it so I just stuck to writing my goals of which I had just one goal. 

This year has been a challenging one for me although I’ve been fighting my way through it. Things have happened that has made me change my perspective of life, change the way I see things, shift my focus and restrategize. 

When it dawned on me that half of the year was gone already I was like , Oh Wow! I haven’t even had serious fun!!!!!  I got inspired to come up with this, it’s never too late lol. 


Just because I like the picture 😬

Mid Year Bucket List!!

1. Go Kayaking

2. Go to Canada

3. Climb a rock / mountain

4. Visit a Cafe ( funny how I’ve never been to one) 

5. Go to an art Gallery 

6. Complete my relationship Challenge. Read about it Here and Here

7. Do a proper photography challenge for a month 

8. Visit an African Country ( Ghana excluded) 

9. Read 5 books ( small Yh, I have a long semester ahead. Best not to kid myself) 

10. Get a silk press ( time to show shrinkage who’s the boss) 

11. Tour around Nigeria (even though it’s just 3 states or 2 ) 

12. Go paint balling or fighting, or whatever it’s called. 

13. Have a restaurant tour for maybe 1 week. Sad how I haven’t really toured Lagos food culture and I’ve been here 5 years ( God will provide the money) 

14. Afropolitan Vibes!!!!!!!!! Yes, beat me. I haven’t attended any πŸ˜”πŸ˜”

15. Have a party at an orphanage. 

16. Have a picnic with friends on the grass, eating sandwiches and stuff ( how????) 

Yo! So this is it for now, this list is subject to an update. If I think of doing anything else, I’ll include it😊


Because I’m so full of life😁😁. 

So which of these have you tried recently? I’m gonna need some partners oh. Can’t be doing all these on my own so hit me up if you’re interested in any. Please suggest places for me oh. 



Beach Day Facial Routine

Hey guys, how’sΒ everyoneΒ been doing?

The Lagos Sun has been terribly hot, I can’t even remember the last time I had make up on. I’m so excited, about to go for Waves by Socialiga. its a boat cruise/ beachΒ houseΒ party and a way to relieve all the school pressure and tension.

With all this sun and heat I decided not to wear heavy make up because I sweat a lot, more than normal actually. So this is me sharing my face routine for my beach day because the face has to be fresh.

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Free The Nipple!!

 

One of the best feelings for me is taking my bra off after a long day. I really do not like wearing bras but a girls gotta do what a girls gotta do. We all grew up embracing the art of wearing them because we were told we had to; but lately the wearing of a bra has become overrated.

The β€œno bra” trend I think started last year with people like Kim and Rihanna being pioneers. I like to call this β€œThe Free the Nipple Movement”. I started this year hoping to free the nipple more but my 36D cup just wouldn’t let me join the movement, how sad.

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Myself Lately III

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MYSELF LATELY III

Heavy is the head that wears the crown

The past few months of my life is what I would call terribly hectic. I used to think I worked well under pressure but now mehn I love a stress free life. Anyway I was able to throw a bit of fun into itΒ β€œI cannot come and die”

For a while now I’ve been struggling with myself, it felt like I was fighting a battle with me. Trying so hard to please myself and also not let down those that have put their trust in me. I’ve had to juggle being a leader, student, partner, friend and role model all at the same time. All these made me realize that you just have to find a center or a focal point, that thig that keeps you aligned and where you can always fall back to.

I’ve been pretty much up to the same things I mentioned in my last Myself Lately, they just got harder; Ehhhhnn and few additions here and there.

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