Breaking up is really hard; don’t let them tell you otherwise. No one prepares you for this, no manuals are handed out, and you just get thrown into it. When it happened I never expected it (LOL). My friends were really quick to say “forget him”, “keep yourself busy “and “make new friends at work”, trust me, it’s not as easy as it sounds. What they didn’t tell me is how horrible I would feel, how lonely I would get and how heartbroken I would be. I basically just became an emotional wreck. Days passed, weeks passed and I wasn’t getting any better so I ran off to Google, searching for articles that would help. I saw good stuff but I didn’t relate to any of them, so I just decided to do it my way. And I’m proud to say I’m a happy girl now, I still miss him and think of him sometimes but I feel good when I do. I don’t get all sad and teary; I’m at peace with myself now. I want to share the processes and stages I went through with the hope that it helps others that are facing the same thing.
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